by Phyllis | Jul 19, 2025 | Uncategorized
Let’s clear something up right now, because the rumor mill is out of control on this one:If you get an epidural, your doula doesn’t pack up and go home. I’ve heard it too many times. “I’m planning to get an epidural, so I don’t think I need a doula…”Or worse: “I...
by Phyllis | Jul 19, 2025 | Uncategorized
There’s this thing that happens when you start asking questions about birth. You mention you’re thinking about skipping the epidural, and someone immediately raises an eyebrow: “Oh, so you’re doing the natural thing?” You ask your provider about induction risks, and...
by Phyllis | Mar 21, 2025 | Uncategorized
There’s this idea that once you get pregnant, you somehow lose your ability to think clearly, advocate for yourself, or make decisions without someone handing you a checklist and a bunch of warnings. Honestly, I’m over it. I’ve been through enough births — my own and...
